How to Kill your victim Mentality and get your Sh*t together!

Go Masculine
3 min readMay 9, 2024

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It’s simple, but extremely hard.

You don’t have any discipline.

You just live through your day and let your weak mind make decisions for you, leaving yourself out of control and unable to escape the misery you call “Matrix”

You probably think that your parents are holding you back, that you’re unlucky or that the “Matrix” is stopping you from becoming successful.

Bullshit. It’s your own fault!
The only being that has got an effect on your success is you!

Becoming successful is hard as f**k! It requires immense discipline and willpower, which you clearly don’t have!
So stop making others responsible for your own misery, or you’ll never achieve any of your goals!

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Kill your Victim-Mentality

Killing your Victim Mentality is crucial if you want to become successful.
Having a Victim Mentality holds you back, it makes you believe that it’s impossible to succeed.

In order to kill it, you need to dig deep. Find out why you have a victim mentality, knowing were the problems come from and acknowledging them is a crucial part of solving them.

Examples:

a) A reason for your weak mind could be that you never had to take responsibility as a child, whenever you had a problem, you could just go to your parents and they would solve it for you.

a) Another reason for your victim mentality could be that you actually were one. You might have been bullied in school, and took that victim mentality with you.

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Whatever the reason is, kill it. Go to a mirror and shout this formula at yourself:

“I once had a victim mentality, I used excuses to escape from hard work, didn’t believe in myself and didn’t have the power to change anything about my miserable situation.
Now, I have destroyed my victim mentality. I search for hard work, believe in myself, know that I can and will succeed, I have absolute control over my mind and have the power to become the best version of myself!”

Important: When you are indoctrinating yourself with this formula, it is absolutely important that you convey strong emotions. If you just talk down the formula limply, you are just wasting your time.

Personalize the formula. Add struggles that you are currently facing, tell an emotional, exciting story.

You need to talk with full conviction, be able to BELIEVE what you are saying.

This means that you really need to make the changes that this little formula contains.

You really should search for hard work, work hard when you don’t want to, exercise control over your mind and improve your miserable situation.

Try to improve in all of these aspects and repeat this formula every day. make it part of your morning routine(e.g. after you have brushed your teeth).

If you use full conviction, believe and do what you are saying, this formula will slowly help you to destroy your victim mentality and help you build the strong frame of the successful, confident Winner you want to become.

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Now you need to make the decision:

Do you take the way of least resistance, continue to cry like a baby that life’s so unfair, or will you take responsibility, choose the way of most resistance to harden your mind, build immense inner strength and a strong Winner Mentality, just so you can become successful?

Make the right decision.

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