Unlocking a Positive Mindset: The Benefits of Shifting from ‘Have to’ to ‘Get to’ Attitude.

2 min readApr 15, 2023
Now you don't have to do but you get to do.

Changing your mindset from “you have to do” to “you get to do” can have a major impact on your drive and general life satisfaction. Our perception of our everyday tasks might have a big impact on our entire mindset and wellbeing.

Many people approach their duties with a sense of obligation, as though they “have to” do them. However, changing your attitude to one of thankfulness and privilege, where you “get to” accomplish these duties, can help you have a more optimistic outlook on life.

When we think, “I have to do this,” we typically feel burdened and pressured.

This mindset can lead to us viewing our responsibilities as duties or obligations that we would rather avoid. This can result in procrastination, decreased motivation, and a sense of dissatisfaction in our life.

Assume you have a work meeting that you must attend. If you go into the meeting thinking, “I have to attend this meeting,” you may feel like it’s a chore you’d rather avoid.

The mindset of “I get to do this,” we feel a sense of gratitude and appreciation.

When we approach our activities with the mindset of “I get to do this,” we feel a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the chances that have been offered to us. This mindset encourages us to see our tasks as chances to learn and grow, to give back to our community, and to make a difference in the world.

Changing your mindset from “have to” to “get to” can be a great tool for accomplishing your goals and living a happier life.

Finally, adjusting your thinking from “have to” to “get to” can have a significant impact on your mindset and wellbeing. You may nurture this attitude and live a fuller life by practicing thankfulness, focusing on the benefits, reframing your ideas, finding purpose, and enjoying your accomplishments. Remember, it’s not so much about what you have to do as it is about what you get to do.

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Gopi Krishnan VM
Gopi Krishnan VM

Written by Gopi Krishnan VM

I enjoy writing and inspiring others. My words may not inspire others, but I want to make a difference in everything.

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