nding out what someone wants for themself, and seeing how you can support them is better tha…hemselves. But, if you really feel like you should, again, I’d start with how they’re feeling. But, keep in mind, some people are happier being fat, and if that’s the case you should just let them be fat. However, if they’re feeling bad about their body and they express this to you, a discussion about how they could feel better is a pretty good place to start. Finding out what someone wants for themself, and seeing how you can support them is better than imposing your values onto them.