Having The Ability to Change through Acceptance. That’s Wisdom
Depending the way we see Life… sometimes point us a unique direction and we manage to walk it till the end, having no other option…
In such cases, when we are actually facing occasions like these ones, we usually think that we’ve brought ourselves to a dead-end, but in reality, we do not!
Thιs is happening because we have a specific motive or pattern in our mind we want to follow no matter what, but this is not correct…
By understanding a different point of view, we actually give ourselves the chance to find solutions differently regarding the problems we face in real life, thus we altering our brain into a better state.
If we think that the transition process is much more complicated than it actually is; which it could be… we actually forcing our minds to take a different path, like we help it evolve…and this is very good, because we get stronger!
What I am trying to say…
Our brain is certainly shaped from our experiences; as children, we all had the ability to absorb changes or situations around us, good or bad…
When a person is a grown up, things defer a lot… we do not absorb, we accept. So when we actually receive more stimuli than usual, we just accept the ones that only interest us, selectively! Every experience long after the childhood years and when the brain is already mature proceeds very differently and defines a specific pattern we tend to follow in life.
To make it simpler; If you give attention in small details around you; some of them are observable (you are able to notice them), some are not! This is happening because our brain blackboard “writes down” from the age of childhood what to distinct and how to separate options! This is only because everything is based according to each one’s set of experiences (your mind pattern). What’s the difference between us? The alternate mindset and point of view!
The unique gift to everyone of us living in this universe, is having the ability to understand the “changes” to ourselves, to keep them or dispose of them accordingly and altering our point of view to a better “us”.
“If your brain still has the ability to conceive that those changes you do, could be applied in your real life, then your brain will never become obsolete!”
For the past couple of months, I’ve witnessed to me many changes, some of them were acceptable by myself, some were not. When you feel that your moves stuck, your motives freeze and your mind pattern does not fit a new change, you are already in a position having the ability to make it work by yourself! This is your choice to keep changes or dispose them all.
When you get there, you’ll see plenty of new options and opportunities grow in front of you and you’re going to be very happy about it, cause you tried hard for it!
Sometimes, altering your usual point of view in a non-adaptable situation, you give yourself the chance to increase the level of your perception in how you treat your existence towards your self-evolving…
In other words; Hard times, difficult situations, dead-ends, unique and hard choices; could only teach you great things that you may not understand right now… but you’ll be prepared for the next time!
A statement I once read says:
“Only a Captain who’s passing through a thunderstorm could survive a meteor shower” and that’s because you started to train your brain and altering your mindset. So, if you got yourself into a situation that you have no choice but getting yourself out…
That my friend defines you as a “Captain”…
