Are these such tests?
1) It is clear something is up…but, they won’t say when asked?
2) Delayed anger or ask. Two weeks after an “event”, which of course we men did not know happened, she shows up with:
A) An outburst of random seeming anger, then walks away…leaving you bewildered.
B) “We need to talk…two weeks ago I felt ‘X’…can you change your behavior to ‘Y’ the next such event?”