How can one be their own best companion?
It is easy to masquerade the belief “no one understands me” on the cloak of charisma, but when you have yourself — you have everyone.
I have just realized that we can be our own best companions.
Before I realized that nothing lasts forever, I believed that our completeness relied on being with someone, sharing our feelings and walking through every happiness and sufferings with some other person.
I’ve come to understand that only we, ourselves can truly accompany us through every situation. People or feelings are temporary, they may fade over time. But the relationship that we have with our soul, if we try to observe that and be with that, that can be the wholesome thing.
People tend to be so dependent on others, even myself at some point of my life. However sooner or later you have to face everything by yourself. In those time we will find out that the thing that we are searching in other people was already there ready to be recognized that we can be our own true best mates.
Now I want to elaborate how does it feels to be our own best friend.
It feels very soft, sweet, safe and fluttering to be our own best companion. We start loving ourselves more. We start caring for ourselves more. Nurturing self and making self healthier will be the top priority.
It feels refreshed and so peaceful to be with ourselves.
These days the world is so noisy, people seem to become dependent on each other And I agree we value bonding's and relationships but connecting with self is the inner peace which helps you to find the true purpose of your life, growing in more wider prospects of your own life which have been grounded since so long. You can know every aspects of your life and every actions you are going to take.
The energy you feel will be indescribable. Because its very true and I am telling you all with my own experience.
You've been in this journey with yourself since day one. You've been through every obstacles only with yourself. Outside people are just surface level . You are your true best companion.
Practice the act of self-love. Motivate yourself and cheer yourself up in the small win. Hug yourself and feel that awareness and warmth with yourself. That’s very generous and genuine. We have the power to be our own best companion, our own evergreen supporter, and our own confidant through every twist and turn of life.
Outside from this chaotic world only genuine companion you can find is yourself. When you truly learned to connect with yourself, you will not seek love from outside world.
These days, it has become completely challenging for people to be with themselves amongst the busyness of this noisy world. People are so busy pleasing other people that when a time comes in their life where they had to face difficult situations, they find themselves stranger because the whole time they were busy understanding other people rather than themselves.
Why am I sharing this insight with you? It’s because I want to give you a remainder before you feel too lonely with yourself or before you find yourself feeling lost among the business of this city.
You were always there for yourself, no matter what. You pushed yourself forward, you motivated yourself, and you will only be the one who will find the strength to keep going, even when nothing feels right.
You’ve been your own constant companion, standing by yourself through every thick and thin. You’ve pushed yourself forward, found the courage to face adversity, and picked yourself up when everything seemed blank. And here is a beautiful truth: You will continue to be with yourself until the very end, every step of the way.
Pause your life hustle and rediscover yourself. True fulfilment lies within.
Thank you for reading. Have a great journey of rediscovering yourself !
