Shout Out To My Ex!

So when I say “Ex”, which ex comes in to your mind? 😉 I know. There might have been more than one, or in some cases just one. However, there is always this one person who comes in to your mind when someone mentions “ex”. Am I any different? Nope! I also have the special ex who will always be special.
So this ex who came in to your mind, are they married yet? Well.. Mine is now! It sure is a different feeling. I’m sure everyone would agree. And I thought of writing this for the sake of letting go (for my self) and wishing luck (for himself).
There are girls in this world who get attracted to the guys with the “bad boy vibe”. I know a plenty of girls like that (Including me 🙄) I think they all have this same feeling of, ‘Love can change a person’, stupid! 🤦 They fall in love thinking people would change for good. But ultimately to realize, no one will ever change.
I dated this guy for the shortest period of time. I kinda don’t wanna list this as a relationship/ date. Because, it was so basic like that. We have not met that often and I guess he was not emotionally available either. But he was a guy who would know how to keep a conversation alive I would say. A phone call was never boring with him. He could spend days without talking, and when he talked again he could make me forget what he did with all the stupid, funny stories he had to say. Everybody said he was a bad guy. He might have been. I don’t know. 🤷 Everyone has their past. I’m not gonna comment on that. He was not a good boyfriend for me either. But he was a good person.
People have their sensitive side inside them hidden away with a tough macho cover. There are moments they unveil it with or without their own consent. Not everybody is willing to see that or will see it. But everyone is human. That is something I realized with my contact with this one. He might have dated hundreds of girls. But there is this one girl he kept running to.. Every freaking time!! Is it a good thing? I honestly don’t know.
Some say, being friends after being in love is not possible. So we might have not been in love in that case. Cause we managed to be in touch as good friends for a while. Some people are not good for relationships, but okay to be good friends with. I had the most dramatic relationship with this fellow. My friends could vouch. It was very close to a movie at one point. LOL. I could say what happened, but then again it won’t be nice.
So, with that note, let me send a shout out to my ex. Thank you for breaking my heart. Cause you made me who I am. Thank you for keeping in touch for a while too. You were a good friend. And finally, congratulations on getting married. Everyone deserves a happy ending, no matter how the beginning and middle was 😊
