I was a super sensitive kid. Lucky for me I was always the biggest, toughest and smartest kid in the room. I remember beating up a kid for teasing a friend of mine from chess club (legit story). I hardly went to chess club, it wasn’t cool.
The vast majority of aggression and insensitive behaviour I have seen in my life has been by women.
Most of my close friends have been women because the men were girls. Most of my long term friends have been men. They stuck around because I didn’t fuck them. Complications.
I hope you understand I only tell you all of this because society says I must.
I hope our shared insight gives benefit to us all.