and lest i forget: men don’t really pay any attention to most of what women say or try to say. in the on-line dating world a guy will look at the photos and then decide — 1. am I sober and trying to do the right thing? OK fuck it, I’ll read the profile. or 2. am I being my typical dirtbag-self of a guy? then no way am I reading through a profile of a woman that looks rough in hand-picked photos from a dating site — flush! or why read the profile, she’s hot as hell and i don’t care if she is for or against (you name your third rail or pet cause) I going to try to pull that bird…and if I was 1. above, after reading the profile and she’s hot in the photo then reading the profile was just to make me feel that i wasn’t a dirtbag and what was in it doesn’t matter and I’m going to whatever i can to meet her or if she’s not hot then almost nothing in the profile makes any difference (save perhaps “sex on the reg” while already planning the uber pick-up)
because we men are dirtbags no matter what we want to tell ourselves. true test — do Match.com, free — you can do it and you get everything but photos. try to sort out women (or men) based on profiles, likes and dislikes etc. you’ll realize how shallow you are. and vain.!!
