Aug 22, 2017 · 1 min read
yes and yes
having recently fooled around and fallen in love! (yay) who knew? the notion of being romantic as part of that or a requirement going forward seems absurd and even distracting — the business of love, it seems to me, is messy and unplanned and awkward and fun and breathless and vulnerable moments and surprising utterances. i guess that we all should be better at doing the little stuff that is routine and ‘romantic’ — because the flames will subside to embers in time but the hopefully the heart will still thump and the daydreams will still come…and not be rote, like flowers and hot air balloon rides, or porn. porn, by the way, especially modern porn, is so boring it’s not even remotely erotic.
