Sure enjoy your pieces Emma! I’m in my mid 50s and tried to navigate my bi-sexuality in lesbian culture in the 80s. It was a catastrophe. While it was horrid to have men throw trash out their car window at me and my girlfriend, it was worse to have to deal with the hostility and judgement of the women I had expected to find a home with. I came to understand it, but I couldn’t live in it. I opted for pair bonding with men and maintaining as much sexual freedom within that as possible to be with whoever I chose. My partner could give a shit about “Lavender Jane Loves Women” but he sure is fine with whoever I choose to relate to.