One thing I noticed in this, is it this article in my perception takes a more extreme version of an unconcious red pill person.
You can have low EQ In a red pill marriage same as in a non-red pill aware marriage.
One thing to think about too, is the red pill ideas talked about in books like “The rational male” series. I’ve found it kinda fascinating to find plenty of women on YouTube have read it and had to admit that 1) yes we do these things, 2) I was not even aware at first that I did these things, but upon closer examination, I def do.
And in the above example of a discussion on this, it kinda makes assumptions that on some level intimacy is just not built and things are robotic kinda bad command and control.
I don’t see red pill as being anti-intimacy and partnership building.
I think it just kinda is a cultural conversation with some factual roots both from patterns in society and also evolutionary psych,
Frankly both feminism and red pill are like opposing cultural conversations to each other.
Heck the main reason I found the red pill was I was looking for a more integrated concious answer and it’s not THE ONLY thing I looked at for orienting my self, but it def has stuff to offer. I do still have to kinda stack up narratives between feminism and red pill, but overall, I just know the first stepping out of the matrix moment I had was waking up to a mountain of childhood trauma. I ended up the scape goat of a family — and this tech I’m the one to break the pattern, but in trying to make sense of the world as it felt like suddenly I could figure things out enough to at least have more accurate views on life, being exposed to evolutionary psych and the red pill really fit a lot of things that I had experienced or was seeing today. And it was as if the whole narrative growing up was one based soley on the feminine perspective. And that just kinda threw me! It’s like you step out of one only to then step out of the other , and there are likley more steps in building awarness still but I’ll tell you when I get there.
I don’t think for a second “The red pill” is the be all end all of relationships, but it is an important piece to be aware of. And yet we as guys do need to figure out enough of the intimacy emotional stuff because that’s both part of growing as a person as well as being able to lead a relationship through it.
