Don’t say ‘no’ to yourself.
One of my Korean friend visited me today and we had a lunch together with Mr. Paul, a friend of my friend. I told my concern about my future, getting a job, and change my work industry kind of thing and I’m lacking in my confidence at the moment. Paul told me that, if you say ‘no’ to yourself, others would say ‘no’ either. It does’t mean being arrogant. It just means being confident. It’s absolutely true. If you don’t respect yourself, why should anyone else?
Well, I learn a new thing every day.