and yet some of the worst behavior i’ve endured in my life stems from insecure people. Their insecurities dictate their actions and their actions cause great harm to others as they try to undercut others to make themselves feel more secure.
I’m not particularly ever motivated by insecurity because I think it stems from comparison which is often a demotivator and a cause of great unhappiness. I think it’s just okay to be oneself as a state of being. So, no, I’m not insecure but I don’t think it makes me incompetent or an asshole.