No one ever asking you out. Never feeling desirable. Always having to take the initiative sexually and getting rejected most of the time.
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Nikita Coulombe
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This happens to plenty of women as well. It’s not gender-specific. As someone who has neither been cat-called nor ever asked out, I would argue that cat-calling is worse, because while feeling undesirable is tough, feeling physically and emotionally threatened or unsafe easily heightens vulnerability.