Everything has a reason behind
Synopsis: in this blog, most powerful lessons of life have been discussed, the lesson which when you apply to win the heart of humankind and these qualities enable you to write the most beautiful character of friendship in your life.
This world is all about learning lessons, every day, every month, every year we learn new lessons, new habits, new manners and try to adopt those good manners, lessons in our life to convert our weaknesses into strengths. Most of the people are those who adopt good qualities very quickly, while most of the people take time.
There can be many qualities in the people of this world, but in winning the heart of humankind, to understand the nature of humankind, to show our concern with them, to make them our partner, there is one such quality of “being genuinely interested” in other peoples, to show our concerned with them, to show them that you are interested in solving their problems, their problems are like your problems, you feel uncomfortable when they are in depress(uncomfortable), your feelings are important to us, remember their birthdays, remember their achievements and celebrate them, this will lead you at unique position from others.
As we know that, many things we do are somehow interlink, connected with humankind, we need someone to guide us, we need someone to talk with us, we need someone to sit with us when we are uncomfortable.
The second lesson I learn from the given chapter is that when we talk with someone we usually talk about our problems, our difficulties, our hardships in life; without thinking that our friend is also a human he also has the feeling, his life, his family and his problems in life. The person who does this kind of conduct with their friends or someone else will never find any true friends, any real friend, any take caring friend, because the human creature somehow like someone who takes care of him, show his concern in him, listen to their difficulties not to put them more uncomfortable by telling their sad stories. how great, Dale Carnegie has gently pointed out this feeling of human nature in his book HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE by giving a reference of case study: of New York Telephone Company, that the most frequent word which is used most frequently is the pronoun “I”.
So, despite putting our stories in front of people we should show patience and wait for our turn, our time and space. In this way, we can make real, true and sincere friends.
Other lesson that, do not feel alone when someone said to end your service to something, find your passion and work on it, you can make difference at any stage, at any age of your life, become master of that thing which you do; try to give the best possible version of it.
All, the lessons which are mention above, if someone adopt those in life, will feel the difference, if previously he doesn’t have friends, he can make a huge circle of friends which give him respect, stands behind him in his odds times, give him company when he feels uncomfortable.
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Conclusion:
Whether, someone is a salesman, businessman, if he gives respect to his work, if he is honest with his commitment and his work, if he respects his employees, spend time with them knowing their concerns, weakness, and strengths, the employees will remember his contributions, his input.