How To influence People

Life is a journey which we can’t spend without the interaction with others.

Often we see in our daily life affairs and in public some people can easily grab the attention of others and can make friends easily. Often we say that they have jolly nature that’s why they make people friendlier even with in 1st meeting. Actually this is not totally depends of having fun with others or having joy can make every one friend. If this is true than Crowns must have maximum friends.

Actually the reason behind this is just a trick which even those people also not know it. When we start to take interest in others, other people automatically tends towards us just because they think that someone is giving them importance and taking interest in them.

We can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than we can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.

This is main summary which we can use to increase interaction with others.

Successful Business man and people of public relations usually use this phenomena in their dealings and affairs. They expand their services by taking interest personally in people.

If we see example of our self, we will feel pleasure and good when someone gives us importance and is curious to know about our self similarly the case is with others.

People are not interested in you, they are interested in themselves — morning, noon and after dinner.

Here I will quote one survey report from America which is

The New York Telephone Company made a detailed study of telephone conversations to find out which word is the most frequently used. You have guessed it: it is the personal pronoun “I”. It was used 3,900 times in 500 telephone conversations.

Let See one personal example from our routine life

When we see a group photograph that we are in, whose picture do we look for first?

In short and summarized way “one can win the attention and time and cooperation of even the most sought-after people by becoming genuinely interested in them”

I experienced it personally in my friend circle just to fulfill the requirement of this blog and to testify my words which I wrote very confidently.

I saw when I imposed myself on others during some conversation, the next person got boredom and tried to end up the conversation similarly when I started to talk them by taking interest in them and finding more about them they felt comfortable and more convenience in conversation.

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