Jaden, perhaps you could read the entire thread and not lift a single sentence out of context. The original reference was women who gagged, panicked, or fled a network meetup because the guy unexpectedly asked them for a date. One had the audacity to attempt to kiss the woman. She said she almost threw up. Of all the ways I can think of that a woman might respond to an unwanted request to go out, none of those responses would have made my top ten.

The comment you responded to was discussing a social shift I see that has more people expecting others to be held accountable for how they make you feel divorced from any measurable harm they actually did.

If I had thirty minutes or an hour of stimulating conversation with a woman and asked if we could see each other on a personal versus business level, and her response was to flee in revulsion, I would feel no responsibility whatsoever for that feeling. After all, we’re not meeting in the bedroom of my apartment but in a public restaurant surrounded by other people. How could I possibly be dangerous enough to elicit a flight response? After all, the power to reply yes or no is entirely in her hands. I’ve never in my life viewed any woman as powerless as these women saw themselves.