The issue to me is the shift in thinking toward holding one person accountable for how another person “feels”, regardless of intent. Each person responds to stimuli through the filter of their own experiences, and no one can ever know how another feels. In the original article, whether the women felt offended, gagged, fled, whatever, they believed the socially ackward men for responsible for their own feelings. I think that’s disingenuous, and I think it’s dangerous. While the women’s feelings are certainly real, I don’t believe it’s appropriate to hold someone else accountable for them.