Whose Pants are Wetter: Gypsy Wedding Crasher or Ryan Lochte?
This week. Holy cow. I wanna talk about a couple of dudes who got shitty drunk, made “bad decisions” that impacted others, and who now are just bewildered that people would like to hold them accountable. Ryan Lochte and our own Fat Gypsy Wedding Crasher.
Yeah, we had a wedding crasher. I was waiting until the juicy judicial system did its thing before I talked publicly about it, because witness influence or tampering or whatever. You know. I just wanted to zip it. I know. Shocker that I’m able to do that on occasion. I promised I would talk about it. What excellent timing that it wrapped up the same week as these shenanigans of:
LITERAL OLYMPIC PORPORTIONS
If you just woke up, #lochtegate is happening on the interwebs.
Ryan Lochte called his mommy and said he and his buddies got robbed at gunpoint by some group of banditos pretending to be cops. You know, in Rio, where that kind of thing happens and where the story was accepted as truth.
Oh my goodness! Our poor, sweet, exceptional, American athletes! How scary for them!
Upon further investigation and review of crime scene footage, the actual crime was that Ryan Lochte and his buddies were all drunked up in the wee morning hours, wearing skinny pants (a misdemeanor in itself), kicked in a gas station bathroom door, peed everywhere, and were held by a security guard who demanded they pay for the damages.
What. A. Dickbag.
Full disclosure: I’ve not ever really been a Ryan Lochte (or his mom) fan since the whole “he doesn’t have time for relationships so he just has rando-sex” thing happened. For one, it’s a little trashy. For two, it makes his mom make the Toddlers & Tiaras moms look VERY hands-off when she is THAT involved in his pee-pee-poking-around business. For three, if that had been said of any female athlete, she would have been slut shamed. Instead, women the world over slobbered over that POS wishing they could get in line to be the next Ms. Rando.
Today, after he, his mom, his attorney, and his agent sat SILENT all week, he issued this piece of crap statement and called it an apology:
Anyway. Apology not accepted. I think we should be shipping his ass back to answer for any charges like…filing a false police report and being a general asshat. And that’s the last I really ever want to hear about him, really. He selfishly stole the spotlight from the people who were there and humbly tumbling or swimming or running or diving or shot-putting their hearts out and quite literally MAKING HISTORY that he doesn’t deserve a second longer of our attention.
This brings me to Tuesday.
Tuesday I sauntered down to our grand old court house to view the late morning session of Misdemeanorees, Miscreants, and Mayhem Masters, starring only half the originally booked cast (the others will still get call-backs via bench warrant, don’t worry).
I was only there to see one star, the one that tried to steal the show at the BFGW. Let’s just call him for the purposes of my silly little story:
Walter William Phillips
Because that’s his name and all this shit is public record, if anyone cares enough to go digging around if they think I’m wrong.
I’ll even give you a “nice guy” picture of him instead of his mugshot so that you won’t think I’m TOTALLY trying to paint a picture of him all one-sided and whatnot (even though I did consider filling out a public information request to obtain the booking photo. I did. Ask the ladies at the S.O.):
Oh, where’s that from? That’s from the newspaper. From when he tried to get a spot on our CITY COUNCIL last election cycle. This guy wanted to make the rules for the REST of us.
I am a chronic observer. I always have been. So I made my way to the end of the hallway, checked each posted docket until I found his name, saw that he was there and looking very much soberer than the last time I saw him, and planted myself on a bench with the other defendants. Prosecutors and public defenders buzzed back and forth, only one was familiar to me from the wayback. He stopped when he saw me there.
“Heeeeeeey. How’s it going? What are YOU doing here? You’re not on MY list, are you?” he asked nervously, knowing that I didn’t fit the profile of the group that I was with.
“Waiting for the 10:45 group.”
“Oh. Ummmm. Good luck, I guess.”
They called name after name, people disappearing this way and that. They called name after name to which there was no response. They’d whittled the group down to a handful and just started asking OUR names, deciding to take cases out of order. They looked at me.
“What’s your name?”
“I’m not on your list.”
“Oh. Are you on the County list? I’ll see if he can move you up.”
“No. I’m not on any list.”
And as they whisked the only other woman away, dressed in her fanciest thin white tee shirt with a neon pink bra showing through and a pack of Camels just begging to be taken out for a walk, a man struck up a conversation with Walter.
“What are you in here for?”
It sounded like two cell mates meeting for the first time. Cute.
“They got me on a bullshit misdemeanor for disturbing the peace.”
“Oh. Dude, I’ve been there. That sucks.”
“Tell me about it. I went down to that Black Lives Matter thing they had, you know, because…well SOMEBODY had to stand up to those fuckers. You know?”
“Oh yeah. TOTALLY. So they arrested you for that? Whoa.”
“Oh, no….no…I don’t even know, dude. All’s I know is I was there and then next thing I know, I woke up in jail strapped to a chair and my fucking pants are wet.”
“WHAT? That’s nuts.”
“Yeah. And now I’ve gotta go back East for a job and I have this bullshit to deal with, and it’s a complete waste of the judicial system’s time and taxpayer money, if you ask me.”
Yes. It did take every fiber of my being to sit there with my mouth shut and listen to this garbage when all I wanted to do was either bash his head or my own repeatedly into the cinderblock walls of our Halls of Justice. Fortunately, his douchebaggery didn’t stop once his name was called and he met all side-bar like with the prosecutor before going before the judge.
First off, she’s about forty-eleven feet tall and has a “go fuck yourself” haircut. Having never met her before, I had to put aside my sudden lady-crush until I knew whether she was going to hold him accountable for his actions.
She began by giving him a chance to tell her what happened.
“Well, I went to that Black Lives Matter thing. You know? And I guess maybe I was riled up and had too much to drink. I’d went to BoJack’s with my boy for his birthday. I don’t know, really. And then I just woke up in jail and my pants were wet. It was a pretty bad deal.”
She let out a sigh.
“Well, according to the report, you showed up at a wedding reception to which you were not invited, you were intoxicated, you touched the breasts of some of the female guests there, you rubbed the face and head area of a black person and yelled racial slurs at him, you yelled “ALL LIVES MATTER!”, and then when you were asked to leave you jumped in a fountain.”
“Well, I don’t recall any of that. I was just at the Black Lives Matter thing. I don’t know if you know my family history, but we maybe have a problem when it comes to…you know. Maybe it’s time to quit drinking again. I was sober for a long time, you know. Cuz I don’t even remember any of that. So how can I plead guilty if I don’t remember it?”
“It took four men to hold you until the police arrived. And then you fought the police. And then you kept fighting at the jail.”
“Ok, so if I fight this plea, four people could say I was there.”
“Probably like a hundred people would say you were there.”
“Well, like I said. I don’t recall. And I’m just trying to earn a living and I’m headed to Wisconsin on a job and I don’t know if you’ve heard what’s happening in Milwaukee with THE BLACKS but they’re all rioting and it won’t be safe FOR ME.”
“I’m filling this form out, recommending that you change your plea to GUILTY and I will recommend fines ONLY at this time.”
This asshole never ONE TIME acknowledged what he did nor did he apologize for the impact his actions had on other people, including AND ESPECIALLY that he put his hands on a black person and then said HE is not safe from BLACK PEOPLE.
He went on to blather about how he didn’t want this misdemeanor on his record because it would make him look bad, UNNECESSARILY as he was just a goody-two-shoes WHITE GUY out there in the world trying to earn a living and the justice system was squishing his balls. Because, of course, all these options came with like…probation…or some other nut-squeezing restriction on his ability to just be a LAW ABIDING CITIZEN.
He asked to plead No Contest. She explained that is a Washington thing, not an Idaho thing. This got my cackles up as to his unusually intimate knowledge sitting at the WRONG table in the court room. And rightly so, he has a history of DUIs and license suspensions.
Ultimately, she and the judge allowed him to enter an Alford Plea. He has $350ish in fines and fees. And not one goddamn intention of being a better human after this.
When he left and she saw me standing in the hallway listening, she assumed I was next on her list. I assured her I was only there to make sure he was held responsible for his actions. Because while the day was beautiful and memorable in all kinds of OTHER ways, this was a disruption that absolutely did not need to happen.
I had the opportunity that day to stand up for/stand in for some other folks that aren’t keen on the navigation of our court system. I get that. I AM keen, so I went. I also had the chance to meet some new (to me) prosecutors that I’m proud to see carry forward and complete the cases that folks like my husband have to start. Their job sucks. Everyone they deal with hates them. Maybe because they don’t get to hear from victims in these cases to hear THANK YOU enough.
I know they don’t always see eye to eye. Especially when they schedule hearings on Hubs’ day off. Or too early on his days on.
He hates that, by the way. But he goes. Because deep down, they’re on the same team. He thanks them, too.
So now that the Phillips case is resolved, I’ll only mildly be listening for Ryan Lochte’s airplane engine to fire up as they extradite him to answer a few more questions. Because totally forgetting about it is exactly what he (and USA Olympics) wants us to do.
But I’m going to be right here. Not forgetting about Ryan. Not forgetting about Walter. May they forever be plagued by fungal issues in their nether-regions from all their wet pants-shenanigans.
Originally published at dayleefix.blogspot.com on August 22, 2016.