Hi there! I really enjoy listening to your podcast but I have to say that I wholeheartedly disagree with the discussion that ‘only dating this skin color’ is a racist statement.
I have asked most of my friends and yes, they were not all white- all of them agree that this is not racist and more of a ‘I like what I like, I am attracted to this and that’.
It’s like saying you prefer blondes, or people who are thin/curvy/bulking with muscles. You can’t force yourself to date somebody you’re not attracted to. I mean, you could, but it won’t last long that’s for sure.
I feel like both of you girls were trying to make the guy feel better and make him feel like he wasn’t alone in this.