It’s a combination of “Really?” and “Come on, man.”
Often, some women are bothered by the fact that their significant others constantly follow and like hot girls on Instagram (or any social media platform). And when confronted, men feel the need to make the women feel like it’s normal and that we need to ‘chill’.
But the thing about that is, men like girls and women of their tastes wearing provocative clothes, displaying cute faces, posing in undies or bikinis, or half nude (or all the way nude), showing vagina bulges and/or camel toes, projecting sexy bodies and pouty lips. All of which you know that you as a normal human being who is NOT paid to constantly look good, no access to a make up artist (or editing apps) can never achieve. AND if its the other way around… if the women keep on following and liking hot men on Instagram that are naked, or in Speedos, in undies, showing male genitalia bulges, abs, an uber perfect physique — eventually, we would hurt the male ego and they would assume we are looking for someone better to suit our fantasies. And most, if not all women avoid that so as to prevent future altercations.
While I understand that social media is out there and people post to gain attention, it doesn’t make this feeling of being upset invalid. It stems from somewhere. It’s a combination of a little insecurity, a hint of jealousy, a lot of “really?” and “come on, man; the white bikini with the nipples out, the camel toe and the crotch line?”.
Unfortunately, there is no solution. People are free to do whatever it is that they desire or whatever it is that activates their dopaminergic system (part of the brain for arousal). Again, it’s just one of those things that you think will make you feel better, but it does not. So, no judgement, this is just another window to vent.
