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Your email list is hosted on a server — something like ConvertKit (which I use and love) or Mailchimp (which is free to use up to 2000 subscribers) — and you can reach out to your list in a wide variety of ways.
This means the easiest way to create resentment in your marriage is to not communicate what you want, need or expect, while still wanting, needing and expecting your partner to provide it.