Sep 4, 2018 · 1 min read
It was nice of you to write this article and share your thoughts with us. However, sex is a collaborative endeavor and you seem to want to turn it into zero sum power struggle. If “missing the point” means anything it means politicizing your own sex life so heavily that the idea of somebody causing you to have an orgasm makes you angry. This is similar to saying “it’s my hair! Stop saying you gave me a haircut!” Except it’s sadder because you’re angry at your own lover.