Kevin Moore
Aug 8, 2017 · 1 min read

I don’t see this as an advantage. People visit for different reasons and don’t necessary want to LIKE or MESSAGE at that time. I have visited a profile several times before I’ve messaged. Sometimes I don’t finish a profile or the questions. Sometimes after thinking about a profile I realize I mis-interpreted something so I go back.

It is no different than in real life. There is someone at your work or at the local store but you want to see them a number of times before you talk to them and certainly before you tell them you like them.

Two things — at the very list there should be a way for a use to track a profile that s/he has visited. So that they can go back later if they want. OR avoid if they want. The other thing is that there should have been notice of this change. This would have given people to go back into their VISIT list and decided if it was time to get off the pot and email that person. Or move on.

This would be especially true for those profiles where the other person said they do NOT see “likes” so it made no sense to LIKE them. Which meant you had to take that “final” step and message them. I suspect there are many people who might have gone back and made contact with others in that category.

This has come cold turkey for most of us.

    Kevin Moore

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