bibliotecária. lover of everything absurd. latinx. cheerful AF.
Then, I become vulnerable.
This is the source of the problematic behavior. Vulnerability is not very chill, and leads a person to start requesting luxuries, like communication and effort.
To correct any dangerous habit, we must first understand the nature of said behavior. It is my understanding that my insistence on verbalizing my emotions to men is rooted in a cyclical pattern of behavior. Let’s examine.
To my brown and black brothers and sisters: We can still be strong and resilient even in our moments of weakness.