However to be clear, I was not responding to her per se. I was responding as a counter for any stranger who is out looking through the internets to find answers to why they are so crushed, so consumed, so filled with confusion and anxiety because of the way their loved one behaves in private.
For those who might read that mess of bullshit and wonder if they shouldn’t question everything in their bones that’s telling them they are being hurt.
I want them to know that even though it is hard they must trust themselves and take care of themselves. I want them to turn up their listening on their insides and stop believing this garbage that traps them into thinking they are doing the victimizing when nothing could be further from the truth.
They know who they are. ❤❤