Can you just put it on hold for a while? Like just procrastinate? It’s not like you have to any time soon. I promise it can wait. Just take more time. Rest. Any of your friends here would be happy to chat. Just wait. Give yourself another week or two. That way you can let the decision sink in. Deciding and then being immediate about it… I think that’s just the pain talking. It isn’t really you.

Can you wait another couple of weeks?