H. Nemesis Nyx
One part cyborg; two parts glorious mess.
Yes is the answer to the question that seems to baffle so many people is these comments: So…
Danielle J. Powell
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Oh thank you.
My goodness! I am just happy to read someone who gets it.
It isn’t a big deal to stop! That’s exactly right! What’s offensive to one need not be offensive to another to honor a request to respect a fucking boundary.
It’s a boundary.
Those things are personal. We can’t expect people to know where boundaries are on their own.
So we have to tell them.
When a boundary request for changed behavior is received by an unsafe person, they respond the way you have noted.
Safe people respond like you did. “Ok, I didn’t know, I won’t do it again.”
