Oh you are absolutely right. I ignored the other point. Completely.
I couldn’t. I just got mad and reacted.
I think the other point, as I said later — admittedly inside my anger…
Is that a bathroom is a boundary thing. And I like boundaries.
I’m not getting into a conversation about penises because in my opinion it doesn’t really matter about the plumbing, like at all.
It’s a boundary. End of story.
But a boundary is something individuals are responsible to uphold. We are asking whom about these rules?
If I was in a bathroom and someone I felt uncomfortable about for any reason whatsoever came in, I’d leave quickly.
I don’t use the bathroom when I’m uncomfortable.
I take it on myself to deal with that so I don’t really understand why the discussion matters.
But, I think all people should have that right to collect themselves and go or stay — I don’t need anyone to talk about these rules for me.
So I focused on what was bugging me in the preface.
Getting mad and letting that fire run up like it did. It happens. Has to go somewhere.
I still think it is bullshit. And I think just because I like someone’s art doesn’t mean I care to ignore words I find offensive.
But I’m usually less angry, more purposeful. It’s true.
You caught me. Now what? 😛
PS forgive the type-o’s I just had a ‘puddle-fest’ with a cameo and I’m dog tired.