Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPThe Money Shot: How to Make Porn Work for Your RelationshipWhen I first sat down in my life coaching certification program, our instructor invited us to forget everything we knew about life for a…Sep 4, 2020Sep 4, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPEvil Exes, Abusive Families, and More: Emotional Baggage and How You Can Begin to Eliminate it…Evil exes. Dysfunctional families. Toxic friendships. Hostile co-workers. Past trauma. These are all examples of emotional baggage that we…Aug 26, 2020Aug 26, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPMarriage Might Not Be All it’s Cracked Up to Be (and It’s Pretty Sexist)A few years ago, I had what you might call a “mentor,” who once told me the only reason she and her husband got married was because her…Aug 18, 20202Aug 18, 20202
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPScience Says Perception Is Everything in a Relationship: 4 Ways to Bend it in Your FavorWhen I was getting my life coaching certification, one lesson we learned in mindset work (that is, learning how to rewire your thought…Aug 11, 2020Aug 11, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPDoes the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More EqualityUnless you’ve been living in a hole under a rock on a remote island with no means to communicate with the outrealm, you probably know that…Aug 2, 2020Aug 2, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPDoes the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More EqualityUnless you’ve been living in a hole under a rock on a remote island with no means to communicate with the outrealm, you probably know that…Aug 2, 2020Aug 2, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP‘Not Tonight, Dear’: 4 Ways to Fix Mismatched Sex DrivesHow familiar does this sound? You and your partner are both in bed after a long day at work. You’re reading or doing something on your…Jul 26, 2020Jul 26, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPScience Explains Playing ‘Hard to Get,’ Based on Your Attachment StyleHave you ever played “hard to get” in your dating life? Maybe you weren’t sure the person was right for you. Maybe you wanted to make a…Jul 13, 2020Jul 13, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPCOVID-19: Our ‘Hippie Van’ Adventure Helped Me Rediscover My RelationshipMy partner Phillip and I recently went on a “social distancing” vacation. We rented a “hippie” camper van with a kitchen and rooftop tent…Jul 3, 2020Jul 3, 2020
Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MPKeeping Score in Your Relationship? Science Says StopRomance Is Not a GameJul 1, 2020Jul 1, 2020