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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

The Money Shot: How to Make Porn Work for Your Relationship

When I first sat down in my life coaching certification program, our instructor invited us to forget everything we knew about life for a…

6 min readSep 4, 2020

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The Money Shot: How to Make Porn Work for Your Relationship

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Evil Exes, Abusive Families, and More: Emotional Baggage and How You Can Begin to Eliminate it…

Evil exes. Dysfunctional families. Toxic friendships. Hostile co-workers. Past trauma. These are all examples of emotional baggage that we…

4 min readAug 26, 2020

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Evil Exes, Abusive Families, and More: Emotional Baggage and How You Can Begin to Eliminate it…

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Marriage Might Not Be All it’s Cracked Up to Be (and It’s Pretty Sexist)

A few years ago, I had what you might call a “mentor,” who once told me the only reason she and her husband got married was because her…

3 min readAug 18, 2020

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Marriage Might Not Be All it’s Cracked Up to Be (and It’s Pretty Sexist)

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Science Says Perception Is Everything in a Relationship: 4 Ways to Bend it in Your Favor

When I was getting my life coaching certification, one lesson we learned in mindset work (that is, learning how to rewire your thought…

3 min readAug 11, 2020

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Science Says Perception Is Everything in a Relationship: 4 Ways to Bend it in Your Favor

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Does the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More Equality

Unless you’ve been living in a hole under a rock on a remote island with no means to communicate with the outrealm, you probably know that…

3 min readAug 2, 2020

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Does the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More Equality

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Does the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More Equality

Unless you’ve been living in a hole under a rock on a remote island with no means to communicate with the outrealm, you probably know that…

3 min readAug 2, 2020

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Does the Balance of Power Feel Off in Your Relationship? 3 Tips for More Equality

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

‘Not Tonight, Dear’: 4 Ways to Fix Mismatched Sex Drives

How familiar does this sound? You and your partner are both in bed after a long day at work. You’re reading or doing something on your…

5 min readJul 26, 2020

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‘Not Tonight, Dear’: 4 Ways to Fix Mismatched Sex Drives

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Science Explains Playing ‘Hard to Get,’ Based on Your Attachment Style

Have you ever played “hard to get” in your dating life? Maybe you weren’t sure the person was right for you. Maybe you wanted to make a…

4 min readJul 13, 2020

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Science Explains Playing ‘Hard to Get,’ Based on Your Attachment Style

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

COVID-19: Our ‘Hippie Van’ Adventure Helped Me Rediscover My Relationship

My partner Phillip and I recently went on a “social distancing” vacation. We rented a “hippie” camper van with a kitchen and rooftop tent…

4 min readJul 3, 2020

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Keeping Score in Your Relationship? Science Says Stop

Romance Is Not a Game

4 min readJul 1, 2020

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Keeping Score in Your Relationship? Science Says Stop

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Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Holly Shaftel, MPA, CPC, ELI-MP

Certified relationship coach for women who feel anxious & insecure in love. (I’m no longer maintaining this account, but please enjoy the content anyway!)

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