As a gay male, reading this article made me uncomfortable. Almost all of your questions are for heterosexual men and I feel like I’m not even seen here. Is that an assumption that every men is heterosexual. And for the question you asked about “women deciding that men shouldn’t call themselves feminists” I don’t agree on that. I don’t think one (or all) can say “that’s a term only women/men can use” feminism or the word feminist shouldn’t be gender specific. Nothing should be gender specific.