Olwen BlundellI have an article about domestic abuse saved at the top of my google search home page.I writing on the topic now for two reasons. Firstly I think its time to stand up and acknowledge that domestic abuse is not something to be…Aug 29Aug 29
Olwen BlundellLove-bombing — how it all began for meIt began in 1993, probably long before anyone coined the phrase love-bombing and before the internet and mobile phones were commonplace…Mar 31Mar 31
Olwen BlundellIrrational fear — new relationship after abuse?I am going to write this down and maybe, when he proves me wrong and I see my fear was unfounded, irrational I will read it and take heed…Mar 31Mar 31
Olwen BlundellDoing it my wayAt the start of 2023, I knew I had four huge challenges ahead of me. I had to sell the holiday property my ex husband and I had owned, and…Jan 4Jan 4
Olwen BlundellThings I need to tell youMy safest place in the world right now is curled around you, our bodies fitted together throughout their length, like there is no other…Nov 27, 2023Nov 27, 2023
Olwen BlundellThe ghost of controlHe is here this weekend, my controller, in my mind, following me around, popping in an out of my Easter. I run past a crowded bar and he is…Apr 11, 2023Apr 11, 2023
Olwen BlundellOn trying to learn about loveIf you spend time, as I do, on forums for abused women, on quora pages for the victims on narcissism, reading books, articles, listening to…Mar 23, 20231Mar 23, 20231
Olwen BlundellLearning about OpenToday is the first time she is there since I knew I loved you. Our story is for the telling but for now, right now, here we are, in an open…Mar 22, 2023Mar 22, 2023
Olwen BlundellThe affairIt has been 27 days since I last saw you. Every time the roller coaster you set me on becomes harder to ride. Even while I am still in your…Oct 15, 2022Oct 15, 2022
