Olwen BlundellLove-bombing — how it all began for meIt began in 1993, probably long before anyone coined the phrase love-bombing and before the internet and mobile phones were commonplace…·8 min read·Mar 31, 2024----
Olwen BlundellIrrational fear — new relationship after abuse?I am going to write this down and maybe, when he proves me wrong and I see my fear was unfounded, irrational I will read it and take heed…·3 min read·Mar 31, 2024----
Olwen BlundellDoing it my wayAt the start of 2023, I knew I had four huge challenges ahead of me. I had to sell the holiday property my ex husband and I had owned, and…4 min read·Jan 4, 2024----
Olwen BlundellThings I need to tell youMy safest place in the world right now is curled around you, our bodies fitted together throughout their length, like there is no other…4 min read·Nov 27, 2023----
Olwen BlundellThe ghost of controlHe is here this weekend, my controller, in my mind, following me around, popping in an out of my Easter. I run past a crowded bar and he is…3 min read·Apr 11, 2023----
Olwen BlundellOn trying to learn about loveIf you spend time, as I do, on forums for abused women, on quora pages for the victims on narcissism, reading books, articles, listening to…3 min read·Mar 23, 2023--1--1
Olwen BlundellLearning about OpenToday is the first time she is there since I knew I loved you. Our story is for the telling but for now, right now, here we are, in an open…3 min read·Mar 22, 2023----
Olwen BlundellThe affairIt has been 27 days since I last saw you. Every time the roller coaster you set me on becomes harder to ride. Even while I am still in your…8 min read·Oct 15, 2022----
Olwen BlundellMy victim impact statementWe were together for 29 years. For the first 24 you were openly verbally and mentally abusive, sometimes you hit me, not often, I did not…5 min read·Oct 15, 2022--1--1