House ScientiainFearless She WroteThe Rapist at My Mother’s FuneralTrigger Warnings: This piece discusses details of my childhood rape in frank terms and could be triggering to other survivors. Please read…Nov 18, 20191Nov 18, 20191
House ScientiaThe Emotional Labor Side ChickThere’s an unspoken dynamic in men’s friendships with women. Most men, whether they want to admit it or not, aren’t always totally…Oct 29, 2019Oct 29, 2019
House ScientiainFearless She WroteI Won’t Carry Your ShameThere’s a strange thing that happens sometimes when you tell people you’re a straight spouse. Most people are generally understanding about…Oct 2, 20192Oct 2, 20192
House ScientiaRemembering My Ex-Husband’s HusbandIn early October 2012, an old school friend of mine on Facebook sent me a message through the Messenger app. It simply read ‘I have…Oct 1, 2019Oct 1, 2019
House ScientiaMy body is not your moral failureLast night, I unfriended someone on Facebook for talking about her diet and exercise program. Why? Why wouldn’t I be happy for a friend…Sep 6, 2019Sep 6, 2019
House ScientiaMy Life as a Beard“I didn’t fucking use you!” my soon-to-be-ex-husband screamed over the phone to me.Aug 27, 20192Aug 27, 20192
House ScientiaKintsugiWhy didn’t she say anything before now? She did. It was in the way she quietly surveyed the room while you were talking. About the weather…Oct 16, 2018Oct 16, 2018
House ScientiaThe Day After YesterdayThere's a moment When the chasm between what was and what is Opens beneath your feet And you have to cross over it Leaving behind the life…Sep 26, 2018Sep 26, 2018