Hilary TsaiWhy Autistic Traits Attract AbusersThis could also be titled ‘How Abusers Target Autistic Folks’ because I do believe there is a subconscious tendency for abusers to be drawn…Oct 22Oct 22
Hilary TsaiHow ‘Trad Men’ Make Me Ever More Certain That Remaining Single is the Right ChoiceI used to really resent being a lifelong single, and for a long time I blamed myself for the fact that men have never shown me any…Mar 261Mar 261
Hilary TsaiHaving a Cluster B Personality Disorder Does Not Make You a Piece of Sh*tThere’s a lot of stigma around the ‘dramatic and erratic’ cluster of personality disorders comprised of Borderline, Antisocial, Histrionic…Feb 182Feb 182
Hilary TsaiI’m no longer pretending not to be autistic and mentally ill in order to get a jobIf employers see my poor mental health as a character flaw, I don’t want to work for them anywayJan 6Jan 6
Hilary TsaiI am Turning the Age my Parents were when They Got Married, and it’s Got me Feeling SadNext month, I’ll be the big 35. I can’t stop these mournful feelings from flooding in. I can’t even bring myself to say the number. Is it…Dec 8, 2023Dec 8, 2023
Hilary TsaiWhy I, as an Autistic Woman, Still Feel Excluded From Traditional Feminist SpacesWith Variety Magazine and other big media names celebrating the power of women, I am left to ask why, as an autistic woman, I do not feel…Nov 24, 20231Nov 24, 20231
Hilary TsaiHappy 4th of July. F*ck the U.S.A.It’s a bit late, but I was tired on the actual 4th and didn’t get to finish this until now. Where I live, the celebration doesn’t even stop…Jul 7, 2023Jul 7, 2023
Hilary TsaiPeople Are Bullying Neurodivergents and Making it About “Work Ethic”I sat here for some time trying to think of an apt description for what I see as the last acceptable form of hypocrisy: Capitalist…May 25, 2023May 25, 2023
Hilary TsaiFuck Your Fast-Paced EnvironmentI’m just gonna say it: employers hate autistic peopleApr 14, 20231Apr 14, 20231