Better is definitely subjective. I know better for me definitely means leaving me alone when I need it. I’m a designer, so making things better is what I do. Of course figuring out what better is in every situation is always the biggest problem to solve.
I’m obsessed with the fragrances from Juniper Ridge http://www.juniperridge.com They have nothing but fragrances boiled down from the forest. Everyone (my wife) in my house would rather I wear drakkar noir than anything that smells natural. I merely ask for acceptance.