Connect with people
I believe if you do that, you will have better meaningful connection with people
I never had trouble with meeting new people and making new friends, but i always struggle to maintain them, Eventually, people can’t handle the distance then they leave and i will be alone again. It’s my fault, i admit it.
The people in my life didn’t feel i invest in them. It wasn’t true but it doesn’t matter. It’s not enough to care of someone, it’s not enough to understand them. They have to feel understood, they have to feel you care about and i wasn’t doing that.
I really want to ask questions but i’m afraid! Maybe somehow they won’t answer it or it’s rude. What is interesting, we underestimate people willingness to answer our questions. It’s important not simply ask questions but to listen to understand rather to respond.