While this is unfortunate, and while I understand the power dynamic, the same thing happens to men with “traditionally feminine “ situations.
Just how many baby changing tables can be found in men’s restrooms? If a pediatric care specialist approaches a couple, they will speak to the woman first.
Dad’s are constantly characterized as bumbling fools who must rely on the woman’s expertise in baby care, cooking, cleaning, and decorating.
It appears to be a human condition. A silly human condition that harkens from a more reptilian time. I will concede this affects woman much more than men at this point, but hopefully we can all find balance.