The relics of loss are not pretty. They can be embarrassing and guilt-inducing. A grief therapist receives a reminder about the unending nature of grief. — I am a psychotherapist. One of my specialties is grief and loss. “Will I forget them,” is a question I have been asked in many languages and accents. And I tell them, “You will have the memories.” Another common question is, “Will the pain ever end?” And I say, “You…