#Secret for making good #FRIENDS

Ibrar Ahmed
Jul 21, 2017 · 2 min read

What a wonderful book it is. I just read only its first chapter “Do this And You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere” Written by “Dale Carnegle”. Book name “How to Win Friends & Influence People.” I am really excited to read all its chapters.
In the first chapter of the book that I had read it all about “showing interest in other people”. I totally agreed with the content of this chapter and I have learned that if you want that people show interest in you than show your interest in themselves. Show them that you are the only one who love them, you are the only one who care about them, you are the only one who understand them better than others, you are the only one who have trust on them, you are the only who motivates them. If you do then people show you that they all are love you, they all care about you, they love you, and they understand your thoughts, feelings and passion. They show that they have trust on you and they motivates you every time. Even there is no single minute or second when they don’t show their feelings about you. You become sincere/dearest friend of others and as well people becomes yours.

After reading the first chapter of the book I tried it to apply it in my own life. I start a little activity in which in next 24 hours I talk to my relatives, my friends, my family members and my teachers asking about themselves. In short I show my interest in themselves. I noticed that I show my attention to others, People show double attention in returns. Here I remembered 1 great and famous proverb that I think it totally relate with it “As you sow so shall you reap”.
I learned after this activity that Pay attention to others to get attention. Helps others to get help. Love others to get love. Give others to take back. Whatever you gave others I am sure it returned in double quantity. So try it to apply it in your life. I hope this act make your life moments best ever.

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Ibrar Ahmed

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