Let me describe my situation: I keep finding myself in dating situations where I am making a bunch of concessions (bad sex, different long term goals, etc.) about the person because they’re being so nice, sweet, etc. But, of course, when they stop being so nice, sweet, etc., all these things I’ve been ignoring start bothering me a lot. So my questions are two: 1) What, if any, advice would you have for me besides don’t date people that you have to make concessions for? And more importantly, 2) what should this phenomenon be called?! I’m not sure “deal-breakers” covers it.