I would say Society is to blame. And not just the society created by men.
Society, as a whole, has brainwashed the public into thinking ‘this’ is the ideal person; whether that be a man or a woman, it matters not.
Now, who makes up that ‘Society’? Don’t know…but they need a get a fucking clue. I shouldn’t have to look like a movie star to be attractive to the gender I find attractive. — I should be able to be ME.