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Sep 8, 2018 · 3 min read

DAY 6: FIVE WAYS TO WIN MY HEART.


-Be Kind and Caring.

See ehn, I am a nice person most of the time(I'll like to think I am). I cannot stand people who are mean. A person whose presence causes fear, discomfort or trepidation cannot win my heart. I am drawn to attentive and caring people. People who genuinely care about others. Self-centered people make me sad. I think there's more to the world than just yourself every time. Learning to put others into consideration is a gift. Not everyone possesses it.
Also, I am easily attracted to people who are kind to everyone, be it the child on the street or the housemaid! Everyone deserves love and an act of kindness from you. Its a command from God sef. Stop behaving like the Cruella Daville and be kind. You might win my heart.


-Be Neat,Organized and Punctual

Neat people!!!! Love them! Neat and NICE SMELLING people make this world a much better place! When you're organized and punctual in addition! Woah!!! You have almost captured my entire heart already.
I think being dirty is a psychological problem. Honestly, I cannot be attracted to a dirty person. I also don't like disorganized people. Being organized is a major key to achieving so much in life. Several people have asked me how I monitor the contents of my makeup box, since there are so many items in it. Its simple. I arrange it every now and then. I know where i keep every tiny spec of makeup! When you shift it, I will notice.
Punctuality is also awesome . Can our generation just please agree to put an end to this 'African Time' syndrome. Please guys! Lets be punctual.(I'm trying to practice this too, I'm far from perfect especially in relation to this Punctuality gist)


-Be smart, Intelligent and funny.

Smart people. Having conversation with a smart person is like the NEXT BEST THING AFTER CHOCOLATE CAKE! I love when I speak to people and my brain feels hot! On fire! Be witty! Be smart! Its a great way to get my attention. Honestly, I cannot maintain a conversation with somebody who is not informed and knowledgeable about certain things. Out of politeness I always try, but its so hard! Intelligent people attract me like the nectar of a flower attracts a bee. I just cannot explain it. Also, a great sense of humour is attractive. Afterall, they say laughter is the best medicine!


-Know how to cook or how to choose good restaurants

I know how to cook( just for the record) but it won't be such a terrible idea if you know how to cook. I sometimes get tired of the taste of my own food and want to try out food from other pots. Please know how to cook, anything other than Instant Noodles will be fine. I also like people who know good food joints! Like I said, I'm not very adventurous with food but I love good and well plated food! Just know how to cook or at least know how to Identify places with great food, we won't have any issues dear!


-Love me,Love and support what I do and most importantly,Love God.

I love those who love me. Lol. I’m serious, sometimes I just know when a person genuinely loves me. Its a great feeling. Who doesn’t love feeling loved?
Then supporting my dreams, my passion! This is a sure way to win my heart! I as an entrepreneur and sole Proprietor sometimes feels alone and scared. I feel scared of the consequences of my decisions, I stay awake planning ,praying and worrying. I think its a wonderful thing to have somebody looking out for you and your dream.
Love God. When you love God truly, there are some things you will NEVER DO! Because with love comes respect! And once you respect God , you will want to obey him. I can go on and on. But I know you already get the gist.

PS: I also like people who dress well
People who can play a musical instrument
People who are very passionate about their life and business.
People who have great social skills. People who do not pretend to be what they are not.
People who can dance. The list goes on...
Lol, but I was asked for just five! Narrowing it down was really difficult.

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