Very well written and thought out article here. I love it. I see noth sides of the so called selfish. First off, I think we all have a selfish streak in us. Everyone. Secondly, I don’t see selfish as a problem. That only occurs when one is in a relationship where there is give and take. Or one that has children, therefore, we do for our children no matter what. Unselfishly. We all look out for ourselves in this world. But sometimes it is nise to have someone that shares that with us and looks out for us as well as us looking out for them. I hope I am not sounding stupid here. LOL. But Many things can be taken many different ways. And many words also have many meanings. Again, great post.