Never give up on Love.
Love. Love again. And again. And one more time.
Cowards are those who blame love after just first attempt, and the shittiest people are those who make love as accountable for their career failure. Why? Love never asked you to stop studying. Love never stopped you from moving to a place that you always wanted to. It was your choice. You decided to priorities things accordingly. How can someone blame their happy times?

You see the world as you want to; from your perspective. That’s how it will be; blessing for someone and curse for another one at the same time.
We limit love by labeling it. Labels are so overrated. I mean literally saying, being someone’s girlfriend will be the last thing on my mind. I want to be irreplaceable. I want to impact lives. I want to be the one; because of whom people will get inspire to live instead if saying “I can’t live without you.”
Be quite sure about what you are doing.
Loving someone is a risk. Sure you will gain something but more than that you will suffer, you will be judged, you will be lost for some time…and this all happens only if the person is not right for you. Please note that.. nobody is good or bad, but if it causing you pain more than pleasure then it certainly not good for you. You will get to experience everything. But isn’t that’s what called playing with fire? This is my favorite thing in the world; playing with the fire! To get burned and then come out more shiner and brighter.
As poulo coelho said while talking about the importance of the repetitions, “The Archer allows many arrows to go far beyond the target, because he knows that he will only learn the importance of bow, posture, string and target, by repeating his gestures thousands of time, and by not being afraid to make mistakes .”
Exactly that’s how you learn to love. Each time you learn a new thing about love so the next time you won’t be doing same mistake. So if you are giving up on Love after first attempt…I must say, I have never met a person as weakling as you.
Nobody is an unfeeling person. Everybody feels.
People might tell you that love is bullshit. And it’s distractive and it wastes your time and all those things. But have you ever dared to ask them, how they know so much about love? If they don’t feel, then how they can describe so much about love? Only the burned one will warn you to never go near fire. They show themselves as unfeeling person, but what they don’t know is they are lying to themselves. Such people can’t handle when someone tries to love them or they can’t even handle success or failure or anything that gets to their heart. They are always afraid of feelings. For them, feelings is just a synonyms for pain and weakness.
No. There is nothing wrong to feel, to cry, to express, to show, to laugh, to care, to let it go. Only if you feel all this, you will be able to analyze the right and wrong. Then only you can stop going back to the place that caused you all the negative feelings. Not feeling all this will be like running from the situation, and that will be like..giving exam and not knowing what we learned.
You cannot unlove someone. Agreed! But nobody forced you to move on with a baggage. If you are searching for the same face in every person that you meet, you are never going to be happy and contented. In order to experience new things, you have to cut your ties with your past. You have to recreate yourself. You deserve more, darling. Somewhere you have to believe the above line. Stop settling for what you had in your past and expand your boundaries, so that the one who has so much to offer to you, will not feel less appreciated.
You have to make yourself like a flowing river. Allow your heart to flow wherever it wants to, with whomever it wants to. Be courageous to find what you want. Keep aside your definition of perfection and meet the imperfect. You never know when your definition of perfection will change. Be ready for disappointments too, as assumptions may go wrong. But that’s ok. Next time, one step more, one step closer and deeper!
