Why Do We Get Butterflies in Our Stomach? The Science of Nerves, Love, and Digestion

Jessica
3 min readMar 27, 2023

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You know that feeling you get when you’re nervous, excited, or in love? That fluttery sensation in your stomach that feels like a swarm of butterflies? Yeah, that one. We’ve all experienced it, but do we really know what’s going on inside our bodies? Let’s take a deep dive into the science behind that feeling, and find out.

First things first — what exactly are “butterflies”? Well, technically speaking, it’s a physiological response to stress or excitement. When we experience strong emotions, our bodies release adrenaline and other stress hormones, triggering a series of physical reactions. One of those reactions is an increase in blood flow to our stomachs, which can cause a fluttery or queasy feeling.

But why does our body react this way? It all comes down to evolution. When we’re faced with a threat or danger, our bodies go into “fight or flight” mode. Adrenaline and other stress hormones help us prepare for action by increasing our heart rate, sharpening our senses, and diverting blood flow to our muscles. But in order to do that, our bodies have to “shut down” non-essential functions, like digestion. That’s why we sometimes feel like we have butterflies in our stomach — our bodies are literally slowing down digestion to conserve energy for other functions.

Now, let’s talk about the lovey-dovey side of things. Why do we get butterflies when we’re in love? Well, it turns out that the same physiological response can be triggered by positive emotions too. When we’re falling in love or experiencing intense attraction, our bodies release a flood of feel-good chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin. Those chemicals can cause a rush of excitement and a flurry of physical sensations, including the butterflies in your stomach.

But what about those times when we get butterflies for seemingly no reason at all? You know, like when you’re about to give a presentation, or meet someone new, or do anything that makes you even slightly nervous. That’s where things get a little more complicated. See, the feeling of butterflies in our stomach is actually controlled by two different parts of our nervous system — the sympathetic nervous system (which controls our fight or flight response) and the parasympathetic nervous system (which controls our rest and digest response).

When we’re nervous or stressed, our sympathetic nervous system kicks into gear, causing that familiar feeling of butterflies. But when we’re relaxed or calm, our parasympathetic nervous system takes over, and digestion returns to normal. So, in a way, getting butterflies can be a sign that our bodies are ready for action — whether that’s facing a challenge or pursuing a romantic interest.

You know what else can give you butterflies? Roller coasters. And spicy food. And, um, certain other bodily functions that we won’t go into detail about. Suffice it to say that our bodies are weird and unpredictable, and sometimes they just do things for no apparent reason.

The feeling of butterflies is a complex physiological response to stress, excitement, or positive emotions. It’s controlled by different parts of our nervous system and can be triggered by a wide range of situations. The next time you feel that fluttery sensation, just remember — your body is doing exactly what it’s supposed to do. And if all else fails, just blame it on the butterflies. After all, it’s a lot easier than trying to explain why you’re suddenly feeling queasy or why you can’t stop smiling like a lovesick teenager.

Butterflies may be a strange sensation, but they’re also a reminder of the incredible power of our bodies and our emotions. Whether you’re nervous about a big presentation or head over heels in love, embrace those butterflies — they’re a sign that you’re alive, and that you’re experiencing all the ups and downs that life has to offer. And who knows, maybe someday we’ll discover even more about the science behind those fluttery feelings. Until then, let’s just enjoy the ride.

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Jessica

Jessica: animal lover, outdoor enthusiast, Severe Macaw owner. Virginia-raised, Utah-based. Scooter lover. Volunteer, wildlife rehabber, conservation advocate.