I’m a genderfluid bisexual guy, and I’m often thinking about the benefits of ‘passing’. I feel a great part of me is feminine and I wish I knew how to express that but I don’t look typically feminine and I feel safest in jeans and t-shirts. I don’t belong yet I enjoy the benefits of belonging. I can’t help feeling like a fraud sometimes. Does that make sense?
Anyway, great article, great food for thought. I hope you’ll keep writing and keep living your truth :)