Mar 11Fathers of the FutureIf you’re like many fathers of the future I encounter, you are most likely discouraged that the systems that you would hope could help you guide your family with love and logic really say and do very different things. I am talking about all the systems that run on clock-time…Parenting9 min read
Jan 5It’s the day of the hearing. The Eagle has landed.The days of miracle and wonder never cease. First the moon landing, then “We have lift off” in the labor of transforming our family Learning Story, and now, Zoom Family Court Hearings. This is good practice for the trial. Practice listening for what is being asked for. Let’s say you…Father Time4 min read
Jan 4How to Put Your Family Back Together Again“Americans, terrorized, flee to Denmark to be married in a time of war — keeping hope alive.” That was the original angle for the human interest story where I was married to the woman who would become the mother of my children on Danish national television. …Father Time4 min read
Jan 3The Flaming Magic Wand RevealedBeing gay has been a mystery to me as long as I can remember. When I was a boy, people constantly warned me to be careful about the way that I spoke, or people might think I was, you know… what? I wondered. What does that even mean? I didn’t…Father Time4 min read
Jan 2Manifest Destiny for the 21st CenturyThe new frontier is in the realm of relationships. The challenges of the 21st century will be overcome by people who will no longer contend with each other to maintain old grievances, but focus instead on self-transformation. …Father Time4 min read
Jan 1Do we have long beards?America is young enough to learn from its past, but not old enough to know any better. For years we told ourselves and the rest of the world a story, mesmerizing in the simplicity of it’s allure. We were one of a kind. …Father Time4 min read
Dec 31, 2021Submitted for Questioning to the Local Thought PoliceWhatever your parenting style may be, there is no guarantee that what works to successfully navigate one season of your child’s life is going to work in every season. Whatever the thought police may say, you have to use your intuition. Toughen up. Children need to deal with some tough…Father Time4 min read
Dec 30, 2021The Best Medicine is the Medicine You HaveThe best medicine is the medicine you have. Children know this to be true. They know what band-aids are good for, and they know how to use them. If there are no band-aids, kisses will do just fine. The simpler the better, really. The more options there are, the more…Father Time3 min read
Dec 29, 2021Celebrating the Holidays of the Status QuoTalk is cheap, and it passes for knowledge. It can also stand in the way of both thought and action, which are the twin forces that transform the world. In terms of time wasted, talking about our problems is a primary focus for both mainstream and social media. This is…Father Time3 min read
Dec 28, 2021The Radical Trans Family Antibody Truth Serum“Open hearted citizen of our world” kellyjane bradley reported for jury duty at the Gender Switch Trials yesterday. She wrote, “Trans identities are valid, and individuals must find their own way to authenticity.” …Transgender3 min read